Status Of Relations Between Men And Women

So that your love passes the test of time and forgive each other.

Continuation of the article on who are the Distancers and the Provedors and the articles of the Phase relations between men and women (see previous article). Or how to achieve real mutual love, which describes the first three phases of the opera on the road to true mutual love.

Understanding the nature of the phases of the relationship is very important, because the main cause of many break-ups at the physical or emotional level is precisely that partners do not understand what time they love. Love always grows, but don't let her do it.

Phase 4. Transition.

Major changes require a transition period so that it is possible to change behaviour and move to the next stage. In order to see and understand the role that each partner plays in the fight against self-reliance, relationships can be revived and even benefitted from a temporary break. Most of the couples need this stage to move their relationship to a new level of proximity. This stage may last for hours, days, weeks, months, but most often two months, it takes Distanzer to understand the empty one in his life.

At this stage, it is important to restore contact with parents and Distancer to forgive (intelligently or in active dialogue) their successor parent, and the Provedor is the parent-distancer.

Recommendations on how to act during this period: When something's done or, on the contrary, your partner's inaction starts negative emotions in your soul, ask yourself, "Has it happened to me before?" Analyse the relationship between your parents and your other partners so that you can change tactics in time and not project old wounds and fears on your partner.

Don't let anything happen. Don't wait for the next time it's worse than the previous one. Accept that the circumstances have changed and act accordingly.

Enter into the pit with your partner's needs. Beware to break the partner's boundaries, or he'll be uncomfortable with all the consequences that follow. Don't talk about what someone else needs to do. Act on your own, perfect yourself, not the other, he'll change after you.

- Why are the exes coming back to us when we stop suffering and start building a new life in which we are happy?
Answer: (a) Knowing that relationships are doomed, they still try to resume them.
(b) - The couple successfully passed the break-up and loneliness test (the relationship goes to a new level of development)